Almost seven years ago, I worked as an Assistant Manager in
a large clothing store in the local mall.
For anyone who has ever worked long hours of retail, you know that rest
is not usually a luxury one gets to experience while on the clock. You know that retail is a different form of stress altogether. You know that often you are working while you
are not on the clock. You know that even if you happen to be in a clothing
store, you will gain a better workout lifting, hanging, sorting, pricing, etc.
than you ever possibly could at the local gym.
My endurance was in prime form.
My muscles were beginning to tone.
I was sore all day, all over, all the time.
Someone in passing suggested that I try yoga to balance out
my retail issues, and while I do not remember who made the suggestion now, I do
remember, quite vividly, my first week doing yoga. First, I followed a fifteen minute basic flow
from a DVD. I practiced three or four
times a week. My body felt so much
better, so quickly that I began practicing yoga more often, and I began
lengthening my meditation times at the end of each practice, and soon I was
feeling so good that I found myself advocating the miraculous healing aspects of
yoga and meditation to anyone who would listen.
I love yoga. I have
faithfully practiced for years and am always eager to talk to people about my
practice in the hopes that they too might find the joy and better health that I
discovered. Regretfully,
this is rarely the case here in the South.
The concept of yoga, an activity that is now so popular that it can be
seen daily on TV commercials, on the internet, and on supposedly “healthy”
items found at the grocery, should be one that is easily accessible now to
people from all places and all walks of life.
Trust me when I say this…it is not.
As I mentioned in a previous blog, in the South people will
look you straight in the eye and say something “nice” that is meant to be demeaning
in some way. I think most people have
experienced this at some point. My own
personal taunts usually sound something like this. “You are so cheerful and
optimistic every time I see you. You don’t see that all the time.” “I never
leave the house without doing my face. Aren’t you lucky you do not have to wear
makeup?” And my favorite spoken in
whispers between two women, “She is so small and petite.” “It’s because she
doesn’t eat anything and does that yogi stuff you see on TV.” “Yeah, I could
never do that. They chant weird words
and mediate.” “We didn’t cover that in church.”
Erm….needless to say, there are some huge misconceptions
about yoga in the South. To be fair
there was a time that yoga was a new concept for me as well. I was not born with the innate knowledge on
the meaning of Adho Mukha Svanasana and Virabhadrasana. These Sanskrit words were once completely
unknown to me as well. I was unsure how
chanting mantras to gods I was only vaguely familiar with would fit into my own deep
spiritual beliefs. Most importantly,
remember I tried out yoga for health reasons; I was not convinced that a series
of poses would alter my life in any valuable way, but I was willing to try
something new. Thank goodness I gave it
a shot. When I first began yoga, there
was no local class to attend. If a person wanted to practice yoga, they had to
buy a DVD and practice in the comfort of their own home. Now, there is a local class that manages to
bridge the gap between yoga and the South.
The class is run with lovely classical music playing softly in the
background. Asanas are referred to as
poses or good stretches. The “poses” are called only by
their English name, and at no point is there ever any chanting. "Om" does not exist. The hour long class is ended with a nice 5
minute meditation, where the teacher ends the class with a nice anjali mudra
“hands brought together below the heart” and Namaste. Namaste, to which our
teacher very carefully explains while keeping any deeper meaning out of the equation, “the
light in me recognizes the light in you,” is usually met with general befuddled
silence. I giggle through almost every
class because almost no one replies.
They are afraid of the word as if it were a black cat crossing a road in
front of them while they are driving. Only once did we have a
brave soul, who dared to reply the sacred salutation back to our delightful
teacher…and he replied with heartfelt sincerity and a jolly smile, “Namasstee.”
As an individual on a different path than most of the people around me, I can say, without any uncertainty, that I know exactly what you mean. I love the looks on people's faces when you try to explain to them, in elementary terms mind you, what Celtic Traditionalist actually is. I've been called everything from a witch to a satan worshipper, and everything in between for my beliefs. I finally learned "To be Silent" out of necessity. It's never bothered me that they think these things, (I find them quite entertaining, actually) I've just found that it's simpler to avoid the topic altogether. After all, when in the South, we don't discuss things such as religion and politics in "polite" society. :) Namasté, Sister.
ReplyDelete"To be silent" One of the best lessons... I think all people struggle with that one. Thanks for your comment. Hope to see more of your perspective on future posts.
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