“How
many people worship a homeless man on Sunday and ignore him on Monday?”
I read
this quote earlier today after engaging in one of the most horrific
conversations I have had to date and the anger which resulted from this unrighteousness
has inspired me to write my first blog in many, many months. Several
weeks ago, I saw a few back-to-back news stories that made me stop and shake my
head in disbelief at the desolation in our world that is caused by
humans. The first news item was about a caterer. The caterer had
been booked for an event, which was canceled at the last moment. Stuck
with a large amount of already prepared food, the caterer decided rather than
throw out perfectly good, wholesome food, she would take it to the growing
larger homeless population who lived near her apartment building and whom she
walked past every day. A local policeman witnessed the caterer in the act
of being kind and caring and promptly fined this thoughtful woman and dumped
all of the professionally-prepared lasagna into a trash receptacle.
WHY?????? Because it’s illegal to feed homeless, starving people.
While I
was still stewing over this terrible news report, several days later a local
advocate was once again on the television speaking out about the homeless
population in Nashville, in hopes to rouse concern and garner help to those in
need who live in a “tent-city”.. At any given time, Nashville has 3 to 4 thousand homeless
people, and the reasons behind their circumstances are so varied that it is
impossible to properly identify why they are there because each person living
there has their own personal story. Blanket
statements (usually derogatory and often mentioning that “they made poor
choices, or they like being homeless, or they are bums and don’t want to work” to
describe these folks as an entire group are just as biased and prejudiced as is
trying to lump any other group of people into a “they-are-this” or
“they-are-that” category. Statistics now
prove that most of us are only a few paychecks (sometimes just 1 or 2) away
from finding our own selves in a desperate state of financial emergency. And this can lead very quickly to becoming
homeless. It can happen to anyone.
Anytime. To learn more about homelessness in Nashville, check out the informative article at the link below:
For
weeks now I have been worrying over this horrible problem of people living on
the street, that seems fixable. My
mind came up with several naïve yet sincere possible solutions. For
instance…empty buildings and empty houses. There are so many of them…more
than enough to go around. Or what about the uber-successful ABC drama Nashville possibly being
used as an outlet, with the story-line we read in the daily news becoming part of
their written screen play? Both the radio and television have reported
how monetarily successful the show has been for businesses, actors, the local
restaurants and bars, and more in Nashville ,
Tennessee . Jobs have been
created. Businesses are booming due to the recognition. It’s occurred to
me that the writers of the show could write the homeless “tent-city” problem
into their story-line and have one or several of their characters actively try
to raise money and help. Others have said the following, and I agree. Nashville
always seems to muster up funds for expensive riverside art, restoration and
the building of new athletic and musical arenas. If they used the same Volunteer state spirit
and tackled the problem of homelessness, imagine what all that care and concern
could do! The homeless not only need houses, but they need jobs, therapy,
clothes, food, etc… There are several good organizations already set up,
already trying to eliminate this suffering. But, there is still a lot to
accomplish, This unfortunate way of life can use all the help it can get, and
what better way to get help but by reaching all of America through an hour long
high-ratings television show that they are going to be watching anyway.
People might be able ignore what is right in front of their face as they walk
down the street, but they all sit down and watch the television. They
won’t ignore that. Homelessness is not a situation that Nashville can be proud of, not right
now. But, people do have the power and heart to change it, if
only …
Here
are a few links to great organizations that are trying to make a
difference. Check them out. I bet you will find there are things
you might be able to also help with. I know I did.
And, as
to the horrible conversation mentioned above… I think out loud a lot,
especially when something is truly bothering me, such as human suffering.
Because I have a great longing to heal all things (even when I don’t
necessarily have the right solution to do so), I find myself talking about
these topics that are at the forefront of my mind. Very recently, I
mentioned this topic in conversation with someone who presents themselves as a
model citizen. Yet, at the very mention of the homelessness
issue our state and country is having, this same person, in all seriousness,
says, “The simplest solution is to just shoot them all. Being homeless was
their choice.”
I’m not
sure I have ever been as infuriated and disappointed in mankind as I was the
moment this person uttered those words. In fact, rather than scream, I
had to stand up and leave the room, and I still couldn't keep myself from slamming the door rather hard. But I don’t believe that all people are
that uncaring and callous. In fact, I think most people truly do want to
help, they just aren't sure how. So again, please take the time and check
out a few of those links above. They each have a variety of ideas, and
many are fairly simple and easy.
As a
final thought, I believe that when a thing upsets you or me that deeply it’s
because we are being pushed by something higher than our own selves to step in
and try to make a difference. There is always HOPE. So perhaps, I was
meant to write this particular blog all along or find other ways that I can
help, and maybe this will encourage you to reach out and help, too. Let
me know if you have any ideas. I would love to hear them.
You are right. There is always hope. However, this same hope that you carry for the betterment of all mankind can also be applied and directed at the individuals in your life who frustrate you to no end. Blowing up and losing our cool only causes us more harm in the end than it does our triggers. This is not to say that I don't lose my head from time to time and imagine the wonderfully devious things I would like to do to certain individuals. After all, I am merely human. I will say, however, that it takes a LOT more to get me to that point these days. When your goal is to work toward the end of the fixable forms of human suffering (a WONDERFUL goal, I might add!!!) and a greater sense of love among the people as a whole, then sharing that vision through action, even to those who anger you, is the first step in making a difference. “If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. ... We need not wait to see what others do.” -Mahatma Gandhi
ReplyDeleteAnother hefty goal that I am working on...not allowing others to ruffle my feathers so quickly. I read your entire message to the tune of Michael Jackson's "Man in the Mirror." The lyrics of that song also say much the same. I would rather inspire hope, than feel agitation and anger.
DeleteReally proud of all my "children"...I have learned so very much from your open and large hearts....I always have heard that saying that "can't never could"....Despite all the negative energy and naysayers, I strongly do believe that children are our future....And I believe this problem of homelessness, and lack of healthcare, and the waste and poor distribution of healthy foods, and people's general crapaloo attitudes will be overtaken, overruled, and overcome by the young people of YOUR generation and younger....When things so obviously are not working, it is a comfort to know that there are still those pure of hearts, such as yourself, who are willing to talk and make others think and talk about making things better. Great blog, and I will add to my prayers/good thoughts/worldcare wishes for the model citizen who, even though he/she might not really believe what they uttered, still could use some reality and love injected into their ego-enhanced soul....another Gandhi quote..."be the change that you wish to see in the world". <3
DeleteFor me, it is time to step up, so I'm going to be actively looking for ways/things that I can do to impact the world and others in a positive way!
DeleteI think it would be an awesome world if everyone WOULD pay it forward. I know that phrase has been overused...but there is def truth in it. I love what you said about actively looking for ways or things that you can do to help others in a positive way. We all need to do this, me included. =)
ReplyDeleteI like "pay it forward." I know it's been used a lot, but it is an idea that everyone should keep in mind. There are so many ways to help others out. I'm doing my best to be mindful, to recognize moments when I can do a little something for someone else. (I'm not always successful at this.) But like everyone else, I am a work in progress. :)
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